Reviews
"Even So, I Want to Get Along Well with You" is a relationship lesson on communication, empathy, and understanding for all of us who cry and laugh because of people. Written by Yoon Seo-jin, a coaching expert who serves as a director at Korea's largest coaching company, the Coaching Management Institute, and has long operated the relationship counseling podcast "Relative Pronouns," this is a practical guide to human relationships based on the expertise accumulated from counseling over 3,000
As we go through life, we encounter countless problems and situations, much like the diverse human relationships we have: close friends drifting apart, awkward situations with colleagues, breakups with loved ones, and family disputes. While we used to fight, make up, and become close again when we were young, it seems that as we age, we are more likely to drift apart and lose contact rather than reconcile. Why is it that the number of people around us seems to be shrinking? [Nevertheless, I
"Nevertheless, I Want to Get Along With You," a special psychology lecture for the kind heart of a good person who wishes to get along with others regardless of the situation, contains over 2,500 hours of experience with 3,000 clients. The author mentions that they frequently offer advice to those with wounded relationships who enter their inbox, and whenever doing so, they expressed regret that there are no clear guidelines to teach the methods and techniques for those who wish to get along
[Munye Publishing] Even So, I Want to Get Along Well with You: Special Psychological Coaching for Those Dreaming of Better Relationships. While maintaining harmonious relationships with those around us—family, friends, and colleagues—is taken for granted, we have never been taught specifically how to do so. Even I, believing that "going along is better," tried to be considerate and understanding, even if it meant taking a slight loss or facing greater difficulties, which sometimes led to mental
Gaslighting actually occurs more frequently in close relationships. That is why cutting ties is difficult. (p. 313) I read *Nevertheless, I Want to Get Along With You* because it contains examples of "gaslighting," a topic that has been frequently discussed for several years. I had read about gaslighting in various places, but it always felt ambiguous; however, this book resonated with me clearly. I think this was because it cited examples closely related to real life rather than complex cases.
[Munye Publishing] Even So, I Want to Get Along Well with You They say that the hardest part of school or work is human relationships. They also say that no matter how difficult work is, having just one like-minded person gives you the strength to go to work. In relationships where we must continue to interact—and where you can't simply say, "If we don't get along, I'll just stop seeing them"—it seems like a constant struggle to figure out how to build appropriate connections and what to do. I
Sojung always opens her school notice book first thing when she gets home. This is because she has homework to do and needs to pack her school supplies. The reason she checks her notice book or school supplies guide every day is to prepare well for tomorrow. And that is because doing so ensures she can get through tomorrow well. We must look at these things every day in our daily lives, whether they are the same or different. I remember feeling reassured when I had a child—using a birth
After working for over 15 years, I quit my job due to my husband's overseas assignment and spent several years staying at home. Now that I have returned to the workforce over the past few months, I have been doing a lot of thinking about human relationships. I painfully realized that what had been cut off during that time was not just my career, but also the various problems arising from interpersonal relationships. Then, a book titled *Nevertheless, I Want to Get Along Well with You* caught my
After reading this book, I felt it was like a pinpoint guide that accurately pointed out the very issues I had been struggling with. Having encountered so many strange people in my professional life, I had come to believe that "people are the most harmful to one another"... but after reading this book, I realized that "people cannot live without other people"!! I definitely plan to gift this book to anyone around me who is just starting their careers!!!!
Unique tips for relationship worries that everyone faces!
Yoon Seo-jin: Even so, I want to get along well with you.
*Nevertheless, I Want to Get Along With You* is a comprehensive practical guide to human relationships written by a coaching expert who serves as a director at Korea’s largest coaching firm, the Coaching Management Institute, and has long hosted the relationship counseling podcast "Relational Pronouns." The book draws upon the expertise accumulated from counseling over 3,000 people for more than 2,500 hours. While it may seem that accumulating life experience makes one more adept at relationships and immune to being hurt, as one ages, forming new connections becomes difficult, and even existing ones often feel overwhelming. However, simply cutting ties with relationships that cause pain is not always the answer. In this exhausting reality where we must live alongside others who do not align with our feelings, whether we like it or not, is there a way to build healthy relationships that protect ourselves while still being considerate of others? The author, a psychology major and professional coach, presents refreshing solutions to overcome issues that one struggles with at some point in social life but feels too awkward to ask anyone about—ranging from classic relationship problems such as setting appropriate distances, handling breakups wisely, politely declining offers, and conversing flexibly, to more complex topics like determining appropriate expenses for special occasions, staying on the right level without getting stressed, answering work calls well, and escaping unwanted gossip. This is a prescription for relationships filled with warm yet sharp advice for those struggling with inescapable relationship problems, whether they wish to build relationships where they neither give up nor get hurt, or must maintain difficult relationships they cannot easily let go of.
Korean title: 그럼에도, 당신과 잘 지내고 싶어요
Korean author: 윤서진
Korean publisher: 문예출판사
ISBN-13: 9788931022636
Reviews
"Even So, I Want to Get Along Well with You" is a relationship lesson on communication, empathy, and understanding for all of us who cry and laugh because of people. Written by Yoon Seo-jin, a coaching expert who serves as a director at Korea's largest coaching company, the Coaching Management Institute, and has long operated the relationship counseling podcast "Relative Pronouns," this is a practical guide to human relationships based on the expertise accumulated from counseling over 3,000
As we go through life, we encounter countless problems and situations, much like the diverse human relationships we have: close friends drifting apart, awkward situations with colleagues, breakups with loved ones, and family disputes. While we used to fight, make up, and become close again when we were young, it seems that as we age, we are more likely to drift apart and lose contact rather than reconcile. Why is it that the number of people around us seems to be shrinking? [Nevertheless, I
"Nevertheless, I Want to Get Along With You," a special psychology lecture for the kind heart of a good person who wishes to get along with others regardless of the situation, contains over 2,500 hours of experience with 3,000 clients. The author mentions that they frequently offer advice to those with wounded relationships who enter their inbox, and whenever doing so, they expressed regret that there are no clear guidelines to teach the methods and techniques for those who wish to get along
[Munye Publishing] Even So, I Want to Get Along Well with You: Special Psychological Coaching for Those Dreaming of Better Relationships. While maintaining harmonious relationships with those around us—family, friends, and colleagues—is taken for granted, we have never been taught specifically how to do so. Even I, believing that "going along is better," tried to be considerate and understanding, even if it meant taking a slight loss or facing greater difficulties, which sometimes led to mental
Gaslighting actually occurs more frequently in close relationships. That is why cutting ties is difficult. (p. 313) I read *Nevertheless, I Want to Get Along With You* because it contains examples of "gaslighting," a topic that has been frequently discussed for several years. I had read about gaslighting in various places, but it always felt ambiguous; however, this book resonated with me clearly. I think this was because it cited examples closely related to real life rather than complex cases.
[Munye Publishing] Even So, I Want to Get Along Well with You They say that the hardest part of school or work is human relationships. They also say that no matter how difficult work is, having just one like-minded person gives you the strength to go to work. In relationships where we must continue to interact—and where you can't simply say, "If we don't get along, I'll just stop seeing them"—it seems like a constant struggle to figure out how to build appropriate connections and what to do. I
Sojung always opens her school notice book first thing when she gets home. This is because she has homework to do and needs to pack her school supplies. The reason she checks her notice book or school supplies guide every day is to prepare well for tomorrow. And that is because doing so ensures she can get through tomorrow well. We must look at these things every day in our daily lives, whether they are the same or different. I remember feeling reassured when I had a child—using a birth
After working for over 15 years, I quit my job due to my husband's overseas assignment and spent several years staying at home. Now that I have returned to the workforce over the past few months, I have been doing a lot of thinking about human relationships. I painfully realized that what had been cut off during that time was not just my career, but also the various problems arising from interpersonal relationships. Then, a book titled *Nevertheless, I Want to Get Along Well with You* caught my
After reading this book, I felt it was like a pinpoint guide that accurately pointed out the very issues I had been struggling with. Having encountered so many strange people in my professional life, I had come to believe that "people are the most harmful to one another"... but after reading this book, I realized that "people cannot live without other people"!! I definitely plan to gift this book to anyone around me who is just starting their careers!!!!
Unique tips for relationship worries that everyone faces!
