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It is quite thick. I have high expectations because it seems like it will be an informative book rather than a fun one.
I had my eye on this book since I was pregnant, and I finally ordered it after giving birth and raising my child. Since I am realizing the importance of words and thoughts, I think this book will be even more helpful.
It is a must-read for all parents and psychological counselors. Children learn and behave by observing their parents' words and actions. The root of a child's problems stems from the transference of parental anxiety and indifference.
Author: Author Oh Eun-young. She is a board-certified psychiatrist and a specialist in child and adolescent psychiatry. She graduated from Yonsei University College of Medicine, obtained a master's degree from the same university's graduate school, and earned a Ph.D. in Medicine from Korea University Graduate School. She served as a psychiatry resident at Severance Hospital in Sinchon, a fellow and clinical professor in child and adolescent psychiatry at Samsung Seoul Hospital, and a professor
Moms who nag and pester their children at every opportunity. Dads who are indifferent to their children's affairs or get angry first. Why do parents do this every time, knowing they will regret it the moment they turn around? A child can only be happy when the anxiety and fear of nagging moms and angry dads are resolved. Anxiety is always close at hand. It is up to us to decide the extent of it. It is up to us to decide whether to take only what helps our lives or to exceed that limit. We must
My second child, now five, is a wild, unruly rascal running around. (It’s as if he can't hear me...;;) They say daughters and sons have completely different temperaments, and I really feel it every single time. Sometimes I get so angry at my child that I wonder if I have anger management issues, only to regret it later. Lately, those who know how I’ve been struggling have strongly recommended that I watch Dr. Oh Eun-young’s *Geumjok*. This book, whose title resonates with me from the start,
Bookstores are overflowing with parenting books. Let’s take another careful look at the newly reissued edition of *Anxious Mom, Indifferent Dad*. I recommend reading it meticulously, with the mindset of a student preparing for an exam, to understand the root of parental anxiety, where it originates, how it manifests, and what impact it has on the child.
“No anger, no scolding!” Dr. Oh Eun-young, a parenting coach of our time, relieves parents’ anxiety about raising their children. This book provides detailed parenting methods covering everything from A to Z, ranging from childcare and education to friends, character, health, and lifestyle habits! How can mothers avoid nagging and fathers avoid it? Dr. Oh, who argues that parental stability, tranquility, and boldness are the beginning of parenting, keeps maternal anxiety and paternal
I thought that once I endured the newborn stage, everything would become easy. I assumed they would grow up on their own and things would be much smoother. But was that really the case? Even after my child passed their first birthday, started walking and running, spoke, and began attending daycare, parenting remained a difficult and exhausting task at every moment. I thought, "Okay, it’s not the right time yet." It was also a huge miscalculation to assume that things would finally get easier
"Anxious Mom, Indifferent Dad" is a book by Dr. Oh Eun-young, currently one of the hottest child-rearing experts. Although it was originally published a few years ago, a revised edition has recently been released. Just as her book *How Should I Say It?* left a strong impression last year, this book is also a must-read for parents. Above all, this book focuses on resolving parental anxiety and fear; it contains all the solutions to dispel parents' helpless anxiety, covering everything from
Oh Eun-young: Anxious Mom, Indifferent Dad (Recover)
A mother who feels a pang of sadness when thinking of her child yet constantly nags; a father who is always strict and gets angry first. Why do parents feel anxious and fearful while raising children? What problems do anxiety and fear cause in parenting? A child can only be happy if parents resolve their own anxiety and fear! From childcare issues to education, friends, character, health, and lifestyle habits, Dr. Oh Eun-young’s A to Z of parenting dispels parents’ helpless anxiety. A must-read for parents who struggle with emotional regulation! A mother who nags and pesters her child at every opportunity, and a father who is indifferent to the child's affairs or gets angry first. Why do parents do this every time, knowing they will regret it the moment they turn around? Dr. Oh Eun-young, known as the "National Parenting Mentor" and "God of Parenting," states that the cause of parents failing to regulate their emotions—such as getting angry, shouting, and regretting—stems from their own anxiety. She sternly warns that this anxiety creates marital conflict and turns children into anxious individuals. Anxious parents have no room to respect their children. The more anxious they are, the more their worries multiply, and those worries spiral out of control. Eventually, their insides burn up to ashes, and they lash out furiously at whatever comes their way. They get angry because they don't know how to express their anxious feelings, or they get angry again because their spouse doesn't resolve that anxiety. As their anxieties clash, they end up living in a constant state of anger. However, the target of this anger is usually their own child. Ultimately, to parents, the child often becomes an object that is acceptable to get angry at.
Korean title: 불안한 엄마 무관심한 아빠(리커버)
Korean author: 오은영
Korean publisher: 김영사
ISBN-13: 9788934986690
Reviews
It is quite thick. I have high expectations because it seems like it will be an informative book rather than a fun one.
I had my eye on this book since I was pregnant, and I finally ordered it after giving birth and raising my child. Since I am realizing the importance of words and thoughts, I think this book will be even more helpful.
It is a must-read for all parents and psychological counselors. Children learn and behave by observing their parents' words and actions. The root of a child's problems stems from the transference of parental anxiety and indifference.
Author: Author Oh Eun-young. She is a board-certified psychiatrist and a specialist in child and adolescent psychiatry. She graduated from Yonsei University College of Medicine, obtained a master's degree from the same university's graduate school, and earned a Ph.D. in Medicine from Korea University Graduate School. She served as a psychiatry resident at Severance Hospital in Sinchon, a fellow and clinical professor in child and adolescent psychiatry at Samsung Seoul Hospital, and a professor
Moms who nag and pester their children at every opportunity. Dads who are indifferent to their children's affairs or get angry first. Why do parents do this every time, knowing they will regret it the moment they turn around? A child can only be happy when the anxiety and fear of nagging moms and angry dads are resolved. Anxiety is always close at hand. It is up to us to decide the extent of it. It is up to us to decide whether to take only what helps our lives or to exceed that limit. We must
My second child, now five, is a wild, unruly rascal running around. (It’s as if he can't hear me...;;) They say daughters and sons have completely different temperaments, and I really feel it every single time. Sometimes I get so angry at my child that I wonder if I have anger management issues, only to regret it later. Lately, those who know how I’ve been struggling have strongly recommended that I watch Dr. Oh Eun-young’s *Geumjok*. This book, whose title resonates with me from the start,
Bookstores are overflowing with parenting books. Let’s take another careful look at the newly reissued edition of *Anxious Mom, Indifferent Dad*. I recommend reading it meticulously, with the mindset of a student preparing for an exam, to understand the root of parental anxiety, where it originates, how it manifests, and what impact it has on the child.
“No anger, no scolding!” Dr. Oh Eun-young, a parenting coach of our time, relieves parents’ anxiety about raising their children. This book provides detailed parenting methods covering everything from A to Z, ranging from childcare and education to friends, character, health, and lifestyle habits! How can mothers avoid nagging and fathers avoid it? Dr. Oh, who argues that parental stability, tranquility, and boldness are the beginning of parenting, keeps maternal anxiety and paternal
I thought that once I endured the newborn stage, everything would become easy. I assumed they would grow up on their own and things would be much smoother. But was that really the case? Even after my child passed their first birthday, started walking and running, spoke, and began attending daycare, parenting remained a difficult and exhausting task at every moment. I thought, "Okay, it’s not the right time yet." It was also a huge miscalculation to assume that things would finally get easier
"Anxious Mom, Indifferent Dad" is a book by Dr. Oh Eun-young, currently one of the hottest child-rearing experts. Although it was originally published a few years ago, a revised edition has recently been released. Just as her book *How Should I Say It?* left a strong impression last year, this book is also a must-read for parents. Above all, this book focuses on resolving parental anxiety and fear; it contains all the solutions to dispel parents' helpless anxiety, covering everything from
