Oba Misuzu: If only I had said this to the child from the beginning

The comprehensive edition of "Talking Parenting," enthusiastically supported by 140,000 parents! A quiz that every parent raising a child must solve! How should you change the following three "angry phrases" that parents frequently use? ① "You shouldn't say that!" ② "How long are you going to keep doing this!" ③ "I'm not going to buy that for you!" The answers are ① "So that's what you didn't like," ② "If you hurry up, you can play for 10 minutes," and ③ "I'll reduce your game time as promised." By understanding a child's feelings through "talking," explaining the benefits they can gain, and establishing rules based on promises, a child's behavior changes noticeably. While there is no single right answer to raising a child, this book is a new parenting guide that provides the immediate answer, at least when it comes to "talking." Unlike conventional parenting books, examples of talking are presented in a "Before & After" format, making it highly practical. Readers simply need to reflect on their own speech while reading the "Before" section and put the talking techniques described in the "After" section into practice. Its effectiveness has already been proven by the author's "Talking Conversion Chart," which has been shared over 140,000 times in Japan. Theoretical explanations are added to the 166 conversation conversion charts, making it easy to learn child psychology. It is structured so that you can immediately refer to and apply them when discipline is needed, as well as to improve a child's attachment, confidence, and social skills.

Korean title: 처음부터 아이에게 이렇게 말했더라면

Korean author: 오바 미스즈

Korean publisher: 알에이치코리아

ISBN-13: 9788925588681