Reviews
Thanks to this book, I was able to navigate a marriage approaching its tenth anniversary more wisely. In the process of understanding my spouse’s and my attachment styles and needs, we also shared childhood-family traumas and found an opportunity to grow closer. I especially recommend it to people preparing for marriage without having had a long dating period.
During the two or three years I dated my wife before marriage, I often thought, “Could there be anyone who suits me this well?” We seemed made for each other and hardly ever fought. Because of our job locations, we began married life as a weekend couple as soon as we married, and even then we had no particular problems. When we stopped living apart and moved in together, I was excited and happy at first. But in our first month under one roof, we fought more often than we had during the entire
I had read and been impressed by I Decided Not to Regret My Marriage before. When a revised edition came out, I bought it again, curious and hopeful. The content has not changed much, but the title alone resonates with many people today, so I plan to buy five more copies to give to people I know.
Professor Kim Mi-seon, an adjunct professor in a seminary graduate school’s counseling department and director of a healing psychology counseling center, came up with the idea of using case-based lectures to help students understand course material more easily and retain it longer. The result is a novel showing four kinds of people, each representing an attachment style. By presenting psychology through stories, it feels less intimidating and is easier to read and understand. “I Decided Not to
Kim Mi-seon: I decided not to regret my marriage
“I decided not to regret my marriage” is a novel built around four characters representing four attachment styles, inspired by case-based teaching.
Korean title: 나의 결혼을 후회하지 않기로 했어
Korean author: 김미선
Korean publisher: 박영스토리
ISBN-13: 9791165199708
Reviews
Thanks to this book, I was able to navigate a marriage approaching its tenth anniversary more wisely. In the process of understanding my spouse’s and my attachment styles and needs, we also shared childhood-family traumas and found an opportunity to grow closer. I especially recommend it to people preparing for marriage without having had a long dating period.
During the two or three years I dated my wife before marriage, I often thought, “Could there be anyone who suits me this well?” We seemed made for each other and hardly ever fought. Because of our job locations, we began married life as a weekend couple as soon as we married, and even then we had no particular problems. When we stopped living apart and moved in together, I was excited and happy at first. But in our first month under one roof, we fought more often than we had during the entire
I had read and been impressed by I Decided Not to Regret My Marriage before. When a revised edition came out, I bought it again, curious and hopeful. The content has not changed much, but the title alone resonates with many people today, so I plan to buy five more copies to give to people I know.
Professor Kim Mi-seon, an adjunct professor in a seminary graduate school’s counseling department and director of a healing psychology counseling center, came up with the idea of using case-based lectures to help students understand course material more easily and retain it longer. The result is a novel showing four kinds of people, each representing an attachment style. By presenting psychology through stories, it feels less intimidating and is easier to read and understand. “I Decided Not to
