An adult child growing up with a deterioration of the reverse function family and a book on the healing process. It also shows the reality of counseling, discussing the characteristics and formations and the healing mechanism of the major symptoms (repeatedly four symptoms of low self-respect, inferiority, perfection, depression). Christian colors are so rich that it may seem a little bit distant to non-Christians to read. "We leave the family, but the family doesn't leave us. The wounds we